What I have in my hand is soil, but what I don’t have feels like gold.

When I finally get that gold, I’ll be happy for a while.

But soon, it will feel like soil, and I’ll start chasing something else I don’t have.

This non-stop elusive cycle keeps on until one is taken to grave. 

“All crave ends at grave”

Contentment is an elusive virtue

The “grass is greener” syndrome is a common flaw in human nature. Even saints, who are often known for their detachment and contentment, are not immune to this mindset. They too, at times, experience this syndrome.

Even saints crave liberation (Moksha). They engage in deep contemplation (Dhyana), which often involves achieving milestones based on different meditative practices. This pursuit, too, reflects a subtle form of the “grass is greener” mindset.

Self-Awareness: The Key to Overcoming the Grass-Is-Greener Syndrome

Self-awareness can help overcome the “grass is greener” syndrome. Reflect on why you feel this way. Is it driven by a genuine wish for growth? Or is it by dissatisfaction rooted in unrealistic expectations or external pressures? These include seeking approval from parents, respect from relatives, or envy from peers.

“Appreciate What You Have, Strive for More”

Acknowledge and feel gratitude for what you already have while pursuing personal growth and better opportunities.

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